No this time I am not going to talk again about love but some heating discussion is going on Fonzter, and all four fonzters have came with all the ideas they have.
What is this Love?
Is this the same thing Imraan Hashmi is doing in movies?
Or the same thing that Shahrukh Khan did in DDLJ?
Movies???
Are they anyway related to our lives.
Yes they are related to our lives, but not with my life. People get inspired by movies. Not me. For me a movie is a movie, another way to amuse my self. But to some it means too much. Anyway. SRK and Imran are 2 stars whome any movie goer want to immitate. Imran Hashmi is a winner now a days in guys only but SRK is wat girls look for at last.
Is love same thing that forced Shah Jehan to build Taj Mehal?
Yes love is the same thing that forced two Ludhiana guys to throw acid on a Shimla girl.
For me Love is as a complex as finding cos(0) and as simple as decoding DNA strands.
The above line says it all. Love is confusing for me.
Its easy to find cos(0) and scientists are still trying to efficiently decode DNA strands.
Love causes confusions. Lot of confusions. The word is open for interpretation
A girl if talks friendly to a guy, its interpreted as Love from girl. The girl considers you as her lost long long ago “Bhaiya” is another story. I have seen girls using this weakness of guys. Girls use guys and at when guys utter “1 4 3″, girls end up saying, “I never saw you like that”. I have recieved a mail which gave around 51 responses of girls. All -ve. Guys too have been doing this. Rich brats. They do the bang bang and dump the girl. Interestingly girls also fall for them repeatedly. But on the contrary if a genuine guy is approaching a girl with smile the girl will get cautious and will start collecting all assultive, read abusive, words in her brain.
I have enjoyed coeducation in college. Man, the love thing is hot in college life. Every one is passing thru crushes. Its the golden period of life where guys get crush for nearly every other girl. And Girls for nearly every “Tall Dark Handsome” guy. In my case I had a crush and dont think or even ever dreamed that girls ever had crush on me. I am not “Tall Dark Handsome”. I am just a simple guy. Another brick in the wall. But some outstanding bricks are my frends. I have seen them. They FELL in love.
fall: (v. t.) To Descend, either suddenly or gradually; particularly, to descend by the force of gravity; to drop; to sink; as, the apple falls; the tide falls; the mercury falls in the barometer.
Fall is a -ve word in meaning. Love causes lots of pains. Back pains sitting in front of a PC is nothing. The love thing causes, “Khoon ke ansoo” as opposed to “Dukh bhare ansoo”.
But then I have seen people surviving abd phase and emergng as winners.
But who are those people?
I support the theory that you can’t fall in love in “Pehli Nazar”. Love at first sight is just a marketing gimmick to promote bollywood stuff. Their is nothing like this. Love grows. It grows on a diet of honesty and trust. It matures. I have seen successful love affairs starting from a simple friendship. The friendship grew and the friends marry. Then they live happily everafter. this happily everafter comes after a period of 3-4 years. A blind date, like the one of fonzter went thru, can just act as an icebreaker. But this icebreaker gives you the best behaviour of the opposite side. Infact both sides beahve at their best. Both sides dress up well. Show all the etiquettes. Paying bills opening doors and lots of other stuff. Crap. I have never dated any one else but I am sure I will suck on my first date. I wont pay the bills. I wont open the door. I wont even pay attention to dress. Even worst, I will be casually dressed. T-Shirts and Denims with sandals. May be I will gorw beard also.
Lets not promote Kumar Chetan.
My point is simple. If you love me, you love me. Not my dresses. Not to the point that I am not paying your or even my bills. Not even to my face. Now this love is hard to find.
This world is materialistic. One of fonzter said very true thing. I will quote what he said.
Let me tell you there’s nothing called love. It’s all just a game. You meet her, you like her, you talk to her. What follows is a few cups of coffee, bags of chips, gallons of ice cream and some popcorns. If you’re lucky enough you get laid within the first couple of weeks. After that, it’s time for goodbyes. She suddenly discovers that you have negative points and it’s the same girl who used to believe you were the best man on the planet a few weeks ago!
I have highlighted one of the line. This is what love has become no. Any one can tell this is not Love but Lust. And this lust is the honeymoon period of so called love. Then saturation comes. People get “bored” of the partner. They try to find wayouts. Result is breakup. Suddenly the guys and gals find that their partner is a bitch or a dog.
FYI a dog is more faithful than any other mammal in this whole universe.
I had my fair part of rejection, backstabbing and all those embarrassments which one can have in college life. All I can say is love and frendship lasts longer in males rather than in females or males and females. Of all the people I know these are just males who can tell me that guy is my frend since my college days. Females get married and loose touch with their frends. Not their fault.
Still issue is love.
Lets conclude it.
Love is painful. But the moments of joy it gives can take away the pain of whole life time.
But then again its an expensive deal.
it is kindaa confusing ta first but when you’re into the real thing and get the hang of it you understand that it’s much much higher and stronger than anything.
it’s surprising and interesting to see you talking about love… i know you are never interested to talk about it…
“Love is painful. But the moments of joy it gives can take away the pain of whole life time.”
that’s very veryy true…